I pitty you for thinking that a 4 years kid can sexualy abuse another kid

I simply refered to the phases of children development as well known in psychology and pedagogy

The games that these kids are playing are harmless its fathers like you that are the
true cause for the traumas

May I suggest that you get your self a good book about children sexuality and how it develops before you continue damaging your kid

I for one got two degress in pedagoggy and I dont think its a kishkush
And kindly correct me if I am wrong but you probably drawn your moralizing conclusions
as an instinct

Such instinctsare often more damaging then helping

It starts like that and it ends up by hitting children when they annoy you just because your instinct tell you to do so

May I suggest that you stick to the free therapy and guidance offered to you by the education ministry you are about to learn many new things

GOOD LUCK

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My view is that the case could have been treated in a better way.

To start with, involving the police was not a smart move involving the media was also not too smart

This is not a case of a criminal act and certainly not a case for the media

Its a typical case where children are playing games and break the boarders atleast if what you say of physical injuries is correct

Again I see it as taking things out of proportion by contacting the media and the police

Involving specialists was the right thing to do in this case
But if the case was treated correctly at the first place they wouldnt even be a need for that

My impression is that things went out of control and its more than enough that one father or mother get totaly shocked, panic or hysteric that this may happen

My advice is to simply tell the kids next time that you do allow them to play but set the rules of what you do not allow them to do but please be honest and come with reasons and not stories if you do not allow your daughter to take off her cloths in games in the kidnegraden fine but tell her its because in your family you do not accept it because you have a different culture or tradition
If you dont want kids to use objects in this game because it may inflict physical damage say that clearly to them too and you are right the supervisers should have set that boarders too

To go around shouting sexual abuse to the media and the police is the worse thing you could ever do

I wish you best

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